Образованием населения займется... Вот, пусть берут пример с CNN (What decent men can do in response to #MeToo): "7. During sex, seek enthusiastic consent. If your partner hesitates, stops reciprocating, avoids eye contact, becomes quiet, tense or frozen, or otherwise slows the tempo of any sexual encounter, then you should STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING. Revise your idea of consent. The old model is, essentially, "go for it, until someone yells stop". But having a history of trauma, (like, say, a #MeToo story) can actually cause people to freeze up in response to stress. This makes it difficult for them to say "no," even when they want to stop. So keep in mind that no means no ... and frozen silence also means no. Flip the paradigm. Instead of charging ahead until you hear "no," pay attention and proceed only when you receive a clear "yes." Yes can be verbal -- or it can be an enthusiastic action, like ripping off an item of clothing -- together."
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Вот, пусть берут пример с CNN (What decent men can do in response to #MeToo):
"7. During sex, seek enthusiastic consent. If your partner hesitates, stops reciprocating, avoids eye contact, becomes quiet, tense or frozen, or otherwise slows the tempo of any sexual encounter, then you should STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
Revise your idea of consent. The old model is, essentially, "go for it, until someone yells stop". But having a history of trauma, (like, say, a #MeToo story) can actually cause people to freeze up in response to stress. This makes it difficult for them to say "no," even when they want to stop. So keep in mind that no means no ... and frozen silence also means no.
Flip the paradigm. Instead of charging ahead until you hear "no," pay attention and proceed only when you receive a clear "yes." Yes can be verbal -- or it can be an enthusiastic action, like ripping off an item of clothing -- together."
Про универсальную "Old Model" впечатлился.